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Role of 'slogging' in development

17/1/2014

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The creativity in development project focuses attention on the way creativity emerges through individuals' development processes but this week I have experienced very little creativity as I slogged away reading and editing contributions to an e-book. But 'creating' the e-book is a really important part of  our developmental strategy and giving feedback on each draft manuscript is essential to helping the contributors develop their piece. 

The experience caused me to reflect on the role of 'slogging' - in developmental processes.  To slog is to keep doing something even though it is difficult or boring. Slogging involves working on something in a steady, determined, methodical and often repetitive way. It also implies that progress is slow and perhaps laborious, in contrast to starting something new which is full of enjoyment or finishing something where there is a sense of achievement and fulfilment.

When you start something your imagination is engaged and you think freely and adventurously about the what it is you want to do. You feel energised as you put the building blocks in place like new relationships, infrastructure or the making of tools and you see a lot of progress in a short space of time. But after this initial excitement there is often a much longer period of 'slog', when you just have to knuckle down to work that is more systematic and routine and is perhaps not so interesting and exciting, but which is absolutely necessary for the success of the project. Slogging is often the way you complete something that you started and its where most of the effort and least of the reward resides.

Every significant developmental process has elements of slogging within it and the harder and more challenging it is the more slog there is. In fact for some development projects perhaps 80 or 90% of the time can be categorised as a slog. Slogging away at something requires persistence and determination and focus. It's easy to get distracted when you are in slogging mode. I recognise the symptoms of continuously looking for things to do other than the things that I should be working on - including writing this piece.

So how do I deal with this need to slog in a development process? The first strategy I use is to convince myself that it has to be done, not tomorrow or the next day but now, and the best way of doing this is to publicly commit to a timeline. Another strategy is to break the job that needs doing into smaller bits and set a target - I'm going to do these things by this time. The third thing I do is reward myself by taking a break and doing more interesting things when I have done a certain amount of slogging. My daughter who has been revising solidly for her mock GCSE's for several weeks became very adept in this technique. The fourth thing I do is periodically make a list of what I have done so I can see the progress I have actually made.

But even when we are slogging we can still be inspired if we are able to notice the right things. I watch my daughter, who is a mum to three young children including 18 month old twins... slogging away day after day. It's a good word to describe the daily routines she undertakes. I know it's hard work because I look after the twins one day a week.. The only thing she ever complains about is not having enough sleep and the effect that this has on her ability to perform her motherly duties the next day. The way she approaches her tasks  teaches me how to extract pleasure and joy from the many moments that emerge when you are looking after children if you approach them positively and imaginatively, and you look for the good and interesting things to emerge. She is a master at turning  the repetitive and mundane into joyful experience. And I guess this is where the inner motivation to sustain herself resides as well as the sense of purpose, duty and responsibility for the care and wellbeing of her children. I guess the reward for all the slogging involved in bringing up young children is to see them learn and develop so that they are able to do the things they need to be able to do to be successful in life.

Perhaps we derive different psychological benefits from starting something and slogging through it. Starting gives us the motivational force derived from visions and being able to see a different future while slogging enables us to build resolve and determination to secure that future. Looking back over the last few days I didn't feel at all creative and perhaps there is little in the way of opportunity for creativity when you are slogging away at something. But one thing is certain, while creativity is essential to the success of a development project so is slogging. Please share your experiences and insights of slogging in the development process.

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More on Wellbeing

17/3/2013

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During this week I began to develop a better understanding of the concept of wellbeing by reading reports and articles I found through google searches as I began to find information for the next issue of Lifewide Magazine. Four incidents triggered emotional and empathetic responses and helped me develop a deeper understanding. The first involved my daughter.. I suddenly got a call saying my grandson had suddenly developed acute stomach ache at school and she had to take him (and the twins) to A&E. I immediately dropped everything and rushed over to A&E where I found my daughter trying to cope with two screaming babies and a sick child. I took the twins back home and looked after them for the next five hours while she stayed with my grandson at hospital. It turned out to be constipation but what I experienced was a good example of my own wellbeing connected in a deep way with the difficult experiences of my daughter and her family. The second incident was watching a news report on the troubles in Syria and seeing the children victims of the civil war. It made me think of the comfortable and secure life I and my family were living and what a different meaning wellbeing had in such circumstances. In my searches on wellbeing I found an excellent article written by the International Medical Core called a Improving the Wellbeing of Syrians in Za'arari refugee camp. How different their sense of wellbeing was to mine many having experienced and witnessed terrible violence including the loss of relatives and friends.

The assessment showed that people in the camp were suffering from the camp environment (e.g. heat, dust, no electricity, unclean toilets), worry about friends and family in Syria, having nothing to do in the camp, safety concerns, and not being able to take care of their appearance (e.g. getting a haircut, clothes). The most common activities that helped men deal with stress were praying, seeking out time alone, talking and spending time with family and friends, going out, walking, and working. Most men were doing these activities in the camp except for talking with family and friends (due to being separated) and working. Activities that usually helped women were household chores, talking to family and friends, praying, walking, going to work, going out, sleeping, crying and smoking.  However, none of the women reported being able to do chores, walk, go out, or work in the camp. Suggestions from people to improve the camp included electricity and lights, play areas and activities for children, having more and clean bathrooms and showers, fans, better medical care, distribution of items closer to tents, paving roads, changing tents to cara vans, being able to work, education for children, better food and cold water, clothes, small stoves to make tea and coffee, hats/sunblock, financial help, moving the camp and meeting spaces for camp residents. The report came up with a series of practical recommendations to improve the wellbeing and comfort of these refugees.

The third incident involved bereavement in the family. My wife's auntie died in Iran and she made time to go and comfort another auntie before she flew to be with her family in Iran. It seemed to me that this was another example of how our individual wellbeing  is intermingled with other family members and how we give each other support in times of need. Such acts give meaning to our sense of wellbeing by giving something (time, empathy, practical support) to others and enable the receivers to maintain their sense of being through the love and support being given.

The fourth incident was also triggered by TV, this time the annual Comic Relief event which we watch as a family. There were many heart rending film clips of children in Africa starving or suffering from illnesses that are curable with the right medical treatment. Of course they are designed to disturb us, to shake us out of our comfort zone with the aim of making us give - and they do. This event raised over £70 million. But one clip brought home to me again that wellbeing was simply a matter of context.. being born to parents who were drug addicts meant that one man grew up without any sense of love, comfort and security in his life. And this was only a few miles away in London. How fortunate I was to be born into a family that loved and cared for me, and how fortunate my children and their children are to experience the same. We could all assume that our basic needs for security, food, comfortable home, love and affection, and a good education would be met and allow us to aspire to making the most of the opportunities we have in our fortunate circumstances with the support of family around us.


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Alice's Bucket List: A life full of purpose

22/1/2013

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The internet is a fantastic tool for connecting us to people we are never likely to meet and be touched in the process. A few days ago I came across a blog called 'Alice's Bucket List' written by a 17 year old girl who was terminally ill with cancer and what proved to be her final blog was written on Jan 1st 2012. Her mum's post explained that she had died 12 days later.

I read lots of blogs but there was something special about the way Alice's blog was helping her create new meanings and purposes in her life in the eighteen months she wrote it. She realised that she might not live very long and so had created for herself a 'bucket list' of experiences she wanted to have. As Alice explains in her blog the bucket list helped her live her remaining life to the full doing the things that she wanted to do and achieving her dreams and ambitions in the process with the people she loved and who loved her.

'I've created a bucket list because there are so many things I still want to do in my life ... some are possible, some will remain a dream. My blog is to document this precious time with my family and friends, doing the things I want to do. You only have one life ... live it!'

This list of things to do also gave her family and friends a list of things to help her achieve and so added meaning and purpose to their own lives. You cannot help but be moved by the stories Alice tells in her blog of the way she achieved her dreams and ambitions in spite of being very ill.

But her bucket list was not just about satisfying her own needs and desires. In particular, there were two items on her list that were focused on the needs of others, and of trying to make a positive difference to the world, in the time she had left. The first was to set up, with the help of parents and friends, her own charity  'Alice's Escapes'.

Alice’s Escapes is run by a team of volunteers committed to providing free holidays for families with a seriously ill child. The idea for Alice’s Escapes came after Alice and her family spent a week being looked after by the Torbay Holiday Helper’s Network (THHN), based in Devon. All accommodation, food, outings and activities were given with the compliments of local businesses. After many years of gruelling treatments, Alice and her family were able to step back and experience ‘normal’ family life. Alice, and now her sister, who is carrying on, with the help of friends and local businesses are raising money to help the families of very sick children to have a holiday together in the Lake District. You can find out more and donate http://www.alices-escapes.co.uk/

Because of her illness and treatment Alice was acutely aware of the need for bone marrow donors so at the top of her bucket list was her wish to raise awareness of bone marrow registers and to get everyone who was able to register. So far over 40,000 people have registered after reading her appeal.

Alice not only achieved most of what she had on her bucket list, she has inspired many other people to do things that they would not have done, and she has created a legacy that, through her family and friends, especially her sister Milly, will live on and carry on making a difference to the lives of others who are going through what she went through.

In sharing her thoughts, feelings, fears and ambitions through her blog Alice has had a profound effect on the world.  Reading her blog you feel her love of life and the people she cared for and who cared for her, her desire to do and to achieve and her happiness at doing the things she set out to do. But also through her words you feel her pain, suffering and despair and the way she bravely comes to terms with her own demise as she nears the end of a life in which she has created so much meaning and purpose.

This issue of Lifewide Magazine is dedicated to becoming the person you want to become. Alice had very little time to become the person she wanted to become but what she had she used in a way that enabled her to become that person. Her story is a shining example to us all of how we might create and live a life of meaning and purpose and inspire others around us to do the same.

Although I never knew Alice, through the thoughts and feelings she crystallised in her blog, I felt connected to her and her family and what she was trying to achieve. I noticed that I wasn't the only one  - I was the 4,776417th visitor to her website!!!!!  Why not be the next?  http://alicepyne.blogspot.co.uk/

Alice's Bucket List

·                     To get everyone eligible to join a bone marrow register
·                     To get EVERYONE to have a bucket list
·                     To get to the Royal Garden party in May
·                     DONE - To buy a static caravan for my charity
·                     DONE - To actually receive my B.E.M. medal
·                     DONE - To go whale watching
·                     DONE - To go to my school leavers prom
·                     DONE - To meet Take That
·                     DONE - To design a Emma Bridgewater Mug to sell for charity
·                     DONE - To stay in the Chocolate room at Alton Towers
·                     DONE - To swim with sharks
·                     DONE 'ish - To go to Kenya (got to go to Kent-ya)!
·                     DONE - To enter Mabel in a Labrador show
·                     DONE - Photo shoot with Milly, Clarissa, Sammie and Megs
·                     DONE - To have a private cinema party for me and my BFFs
·                     DONE- To stay in a caravan
·                     DONE - To have a purple Apple ipad
·                     DONE - To have a nice picture taken with Mabel
·                     DONE - To have my hair done
·                     DONE - To have a back massage

To donate to Alice's charity visit http://www.alices-escapes.co.uk/  or visit Alice's own website http://alicepyne.blogspot.co.uk/
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Olympic reflections

8/8/2012

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World events come in all shapes and sizes but the Olympics - especially when they are hosted by your own country are pretty big and sustained. Of course I love sport and having been sporty as a youth I can relate to what these elite athletes are going through and appreciate something of the dedication, commitment, sacrifice and pain they have gone through to prepare themselves for their moment.

I can honestly say I have been blown away by the spectacle from the opening ceremony which filled me with pride through all the drama as it unfolds. Not retrospective analysis but raw gut feelings to what is happening or has just happened involving the people who it is happening to. Having the time to follow multiple events on the BBC internet service I have been totally enthralled by the drama and the spectacle. I also managed to experience two events - football and volley ball. 

There is no doubt that the media have a huge role to play in engaging people in the Olympic experience especially for people who are unable to directly experience an event. The BBC coverage has been exceptional - through the profiles of the athletes I have learnt about them as individuals - their families, their sporting history and what it means to them and the coaches who encourage and help them perform. Through the events we learn about the different sports and what individuals have to do and of course we witness people performing at the highest level.

I expect I'm no different to anyone else when I witness - albeit through the BBC - someone winning an event in the Olympics. On every occasion I experience a rollercoaster of emotions that begins with willing people on and then there is an overwhelming feeling in which tears well up and I connect with the moment being shared by athlete and audiences all over the world .. It is an amazing feeling of happiness, pride and gratitude for someone who has achieved their dream after devoting their life for this moment. And they share their overwhelming joy and thank all the people who have helped them and made sacrifices too.. And I can't help but be moved and feel uplifted as I experience this wonderfully human feeling over and over again.

                                                 Laura Trott just after she won gold in the cycling rejoicing with her family. 
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But what about the downside of the emotional rollercoaster? The side that is not joyful but broken-hearted. Thanks to TV we also witness the total dejection of people who judge themselves to have fallen short of their goal, who perform well below what they are capable of doing or who injure themselves in competition. We see interviews of people who have given everything and were piped at the post like Mark Hunter and Zac Purchase in their dramatic lightweight double sculls final when they led all the way until the last few metres and were beaten by inches into the silver medal position. They were barely able to talk because they were physically shattered and choked with emotion. And our empathetic brains kick in again as we share their utter devastation and empathise with their situation. 

And I'm sure the memories will live on until I can remember no more and just as I was inspired by Sebastian Coe and Steve Ovet in the 1980's many young people will have been inspired by the performances of participants in these games and their influences and effects will be immeasurable. 
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